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Winter 2009 - Choose Love, Not Fear

Dear Friends

Recently, I stayed at the house of some friends to take care of their animals while they were on vacation. I was working away when I heard their cat's cries coming from the garage. The garage is Muffin's private place where she can eat in peace and not have to worry about the family's two dogs wanting to sample any of her feline fare. She was now signaling me that she wanted to rejoin 'the family' in the light and warmth of the house.

Of course, I happily came to her 'rescue' and opened the door for the now nearly frantic cat. Judging by her plaintive cries, I expected her to leap into the house the moment I opened the door. Instead, she stopped crying and just sat there in silence. 'Come on, Muffin,' I encouraged her. But it was a no go. So, I shut the door and returned to my work. Within minutes, the cries began again; this time, even more fervent. Once again, I stopped what I was doing and went to open the door. And, once again, Muffin just sat there, motionless, not making a sound. I began feeling annoyed, but not as annoyed as when we had done this dance perhaps another four times. There seemed to be no logic to the steps in this dance. Clearly, the cat wanted to be in the house instead of in the garage. Who wouldn’t? The garage was cold, dark, and musty smelling. The house was warm, cozily lit, and a virtual haven for any self-respecting cat in need of an honest catnap. After the third go-round, it became apparent that Muffin's reticence was due to her fear of the dogs. Mind you, she lives with these dogs day in and day out; they have never harmed her in any way (well, except for their innocent curiosity regarding those little cans of Tasty Trout Dinner). But the point is these were not wild dogs from the Barrio — they were family.

Finally, Muffin made a run for it and settled down on an easy chair in the family room. The dogs hardly even acknowledged her entrance, and I thought, 'All that time wasted on an irrational fear!'

I can't tell you how many times I experienced the 'Muffin Dance' this past week. There was the woman in my support group who had been complaining about her job since I joined the group six months ago. The scenario seemed all too familiar to me: to remain in the cold garage and complain about it or to take some action that would enable her to experience light and warmth. Amazingly, like Muffin, this woman chose to stay in the garage. Her wild dogs came in the form of 'not being able to deal with rejection right now,' which might occur if she were to look for another job.

With the New Year approaching, I began exploring the musty garage experiences in my own life. What 'wild dogs' are holding me back in fear? And, more importantly, what choices will I make in response to my fears? What thoughts will I choose to enter my mind? What thoughts will I choose to release? And, more importantly, what action will I take in hopes of enhancing my life experience? I can choose to be a victim in the dark or I can choose to live abundantly in the light. One thing I know for sure is that when doors open before me in 2010, I'm leaping inside at the first opportunity.




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