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Holiday 2011 - How Did I Get Here?

Dear Friends

Do you ever find yourself wondering 'How did I get here?' That's how I felt last month at my daughter Kathryn's prom. Her sister and I couldn't have been more excited, but what mom doesn't get all hyped up and sentimental for her daughter's first formal dance? From the moment my ultrasound showed she was a girl, I had visions of slumber parties and prom dresses in my head. After she was born and I was told she would never walk or talk, let alone dance, I figured 'prom' probably wasn't in the cards. So you can imagine our sense of joy, anticipation,and anxiety when we learned that a prom for teenagers with special needs was scheduled here in San Diego.

As a teenager, had I known that one day I'd be at my 19-year-old daughter's prom, cleaning her up in a restroom stall after a most unfortunate 'incident' during a most unfortunate time, I might have curled up in the fetal position and never gotten up. (Hence my 'How did I get here' moment.) Interestingly, though, I felt none of the feelings you'd think given the situation. Kathryn's sister, Ann, was with me to help, and instead of our feeling overwhelmingly horrified and grief stricken, the situation only further cemented our bond. As irreverent as it may sound, we actually found some humor in our 'plight,' and by the time the three of returned to the dance floor, I'd even go so far as to say we felt rather empowered.

After the evening was behind us (it took three of us to keep Kathryn from bolting, so we weren't there long!), I was curious as to why we weren't feeling traumatized (believe me, if you had witnessed us in the restroom, you'd understand my curiosity!). As I talked it over with a friend, we wondered if when we experience every huge challenge by being fully present, without checking out in one way or another (through alcohol, prescription meds, over-eating, etc.), it serves as a form of inoculation, boosting our emotional immunity and enabling us to handle the next unsavory experience with just a little more ability than we had before.

It's never easy to face huge challenges during the holidays though. If that's what you're experiencing this holiday season, my hope is that you might consider any unfortunate event as a moment to experience, knowing that as trite as it sounds, moments do pass, and by holiday 2012 (if not sooner!), chances are, you'll be stronger, wiser, and even more healthy than you were before.




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Early Summer 2014 -- Embracing our Dormant Times

From our archives -- Taking Time to Listen

Late Spring 2014 -- Seeing More Clearly

Spring 2014 -- Savor What Makes Your Heart Sing

Early Spring 2014 -- The Power of Quotes

Holiday 2013 -- Taking the Time to Listen

Holiday 2013 -- Open our Hearts to the Good Around Us

Fall 2013 -- How to Cope in Tough Times

Late Summer 2013 - The Priceless Gift of Friendship

Midsummer 2013 -- My Luck is Pretty Good Luck

Early Summer 2013 -- Slow Down Enough to Smile

Late Spring 2013 -- Recognizing Gifts

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Early Spring 2013 -- Know Where You're Going

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Fall 2012 -- Gratitude for What We Have

Early Fall 2012 -- See the Beauty in Front of Us

Late Summer 2012 -- Modify So It Works for You

Summer 2012 -- Finding Balance

Early Summer 2012 -- Go Ahead and Take that Risk!

Late Spring 2012 - Trusting Your Gut

Spring 2012 - Living Life to the Fullest

Early Spring 2012 - New Year, No Excuses

Winter 2011 - A Thoughtful Tip

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Early Summer 2011 - The Power of Nice

Late Spring 2011 - The Gifts of Spring

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Early Summer 2010 - Don't Just Stand There. Do Something!

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